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Fernando, 59 y.o., United States, Roanoke
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First name: Fernando
Age: 59
Location: United States, Roanoke
Zodiac Sign: Capricorn
Weight: 73kg
Height: 163cm
Eye colour: Brown
Hair colour: Salt and pepper gray
Body type: Muscular
Smoking Frequency: Never
Drinking Frequency: Occasionally(Socially)
Sleeping habits: I am an early bird (I like to get up early)
With information:
Do you have children?:
34 y.o. girl, not living at home
32 y.o. girl, not living at home
Language:
English 5 (Fluent)
Spanish 5 (Fluent)
Portuguese 2 (Elementary)
Italian 2 (Elementary)
Marital status: Divorced
Want children: No
Do you agree to move ?:
I agree to stay in my city
Your priorities in life:
Family, long-term relationship
Welfare/well-being
Career
Stability, safety
Your income: Very high income
In my property: A house/ a cottage, A car
Where do you live?: Separate flat/apartment
What do you think about travelling and meeting expenses: I agree to pay
Education: Graduate degree
Job title: Other
What religion do you practice?: Catholic
Preferences
Age: 33 - 99
Eye colour: Any
Hair colour: Any
Is it okay if they have children?: Yes but living separately
Body type: Any
Smokes: Never
Drinks: Occasionally(Socially)
Ethnic Preference: Any

Responses to some questions

How would you describe yourself?
Updated on June 8th, 2018
SYNOPSIS

I regularly update my profile based on recent experiences or people's input by reading my profile. My intention is to provide an idea about who I am and what is that I am hoping to find in this side.

This is NOT written with the intention to tell how what to do, what not to do or the way you need to be if you like to get to know me.
Now, you are reading mine and you are having the control to learn about me or stop reading right this moment. This is a lot to read. Maybe you hate to read. My recommendation is to keep reading because it will save you a lot time in the long run

I am assuming you are an intelligent woman and you will take advantage of this brief introduction to learn about me.

REQUEST FROM ME

Please do not make judgments or make inferences without getting the chance to know me first. What you are about to read is just subjective ideas written with the intention to make you think about this “Virtual Romance Media” and what make the best out of it.

FRAME OF MIND WHEN YOU READ THIS

When you are reading this, please stop and think how this relates to you on your daily life and the benefits you may have on your future as an individual. Your time is very important and so it is mine. So both, you and I have the control to our lives and we create our own happiness.

A LITTLE BIT ABOUT WHO I AM

Trustworthy is who I am!

I have worked consistently hard since I was a little boy to become the person that you “maybe” will give yourself the chance to meet.

Have you ever thought that you have in fact control about this situation?

I will probably say the first hello in our conversation. Believe me when I say, I read your profile with great attention. Also, I looked the pictures you posted on your profile and admire them.

Presently, I am very healthy and exercise almost on a daily basis. I am not a gym rat who spends endless hours pursuing physical perfection.

Hopefully, you are someone who approaches this activity similarly. It would be nice to have someone coming to the gym with me for a change.

MY PICTURES AND YOUR PICTURES

All my pictures in my main gallery are very recent. I update them constantly because I know I look different thru time. I wish could stop time and look like I were at my best in previous young years

All my pictures were taken with a regular digital camera by a friend, a relative or someone nice walking at the street at that moment in time.

I posted hundreds of other pics in different galleries from my life so you can tell that I have alone but never lonely in this life. Always busy doing amazing things around may people.

Please don’t think for a minute I posted those pics to show off about my privilege life. Actually, those are real example of all the littles things you would be enjoying with me if we become a couple.

I believe that if I post other kind of pictures I am lying to you about my appearance. I know you would not be happy when we chat in Skype and I don’t look nothing like what I said are my most recent pics hahaha..

My pictures show exactly how I look on a daily basis not when I all dress up to go to a business meeting or a party

I would expect nothing less from yours !

A picture is worth a thousand words is what we say back in the US. So, I shared a fraction about my life in pictures so you can see that I am who I say I am. I hope you enjoy them.

MY EXPERIENCE MEETING PEOPLE IN THIS WEBSITE

I am not in any kind of rush meeting someone in here! In other words, I am not desperate to have a woman. I am alone but hardly feel lonely.

Check out my pictures. Do you think I look lonely? Hardly! Do not get confuse with the two please. I am alone but hardly lonely! Always doing things and surrounded by interesting people.

People do not confuse my real interest about you with desperation to have a woman. If I text and chat with you that means you has my attention. That is all.

COMMUNICATION BETWEEN YOU AND I

Unfortunately for me I don’t speak any Slavic languages. Therefore, unless you speak English or Spanish we will never have the chance to communicate. Also, no relationship will EVER exist between us without communication.

Please, I am not here to help someone to practice their English written or oral skills. I hope you understand this.

Great communication is an invitation to learn more a more about each other. There is so much to win and little to lose in learning about someone.

ENGLISH TO COMMUNICATE WITH EACH OTHER

For some of you who are interested in getting to know me, but don’t speak English or Spanish (yes I do speak Spanish, understand Italian, Portuguese and French if you speak it slowly), please try to learn it.

First of all, learning English will be beneficial for you because is another powerful skill that you will use and enjoy for the rest of your life. Also, it will tremendously helpful in the discovering process between you and I.

Don't be shy, say hello and be ready to have the best time of your life when you get the chance to meet me!

TIME INVESTMENT AND WILLINGNESS TO TALK TO ME

First of all, let’s be aware that you and I are complete strangers to each other. My goal here is not get a girlfriend but to meet my future wife.

That is a very important person in my life so I will have to be sure about her and the only way to do that is learning about her.

Time is investment is very important to me. I also have a very demanding job like most people. However, I will never tell you that I could never reply to your email because I was busy or tired because of work. I am here in this website because I know I can manage my time at work and also here writing and learning about you.

My time investment and my willingness to communicate with you shows that I am serious about my search and I want to meet you.

I would expect the same from you!

I am a happy person concerning my personal achievements! Now, I consider this is the right time to enjoy all the rewards with that especial someone who could potentially be you!

Although I have been in many places and met many people in my time, I have few who I can called friends with great pride. Those amazing individuals have always supported me and have witnessed my growth thru time at different stages of my life. No matter how close or how far they have been physically in the world in my moments of need, there were there for me. Not a minute later. They have shared my best moments in life and also in my worst (3 years ago when I die and came alive again by the grace of God).

VIRTUAL ROMANCE AND MEETING YOU IN PERSON

Meeting you or I has nothing to do with LUCK because you and I have total control of communicating with each other. We decide to do it or not.

The process is fairly simple. We write couple emails in the website, we use all the free technology out there such as WhatsApp, Viber so we could text and chat for free. Skype is next so you can place a face behind of the previous writing.

I enjoy chatting on a daily basis so we could eventually plan when will be the day that I can meet you in person and end this “Virtual Romance”

You may not know if I am the right person for unless you first take the chance to learn about me. This is step number one in this journey. Yes, this is a journey! This is not a fast shopping around the local mall looking for a dress because you have a party invitation and you don't have the right outfit for the occasion.

This is about your life as an individual so I prefer invest the time to learn about you and be sure you and I belong each other to spend a happy life together.

INTERACTION AND CULTURAL DIFFERENCE BETWEEN YOU AND I

I read that most you in here are willing to relocate to a different country than yours.

That is great! Have you thought that maybe people in your new country people don’t think and do things like in your country?

I know this is true because I lived in Peru, Mexico, US (6 different states) , 3 years in China. I am back in Dallas, Texas.

If your desire is to be with me, you must learn to compromise what is good for the both of us like I would do as well.

I have travelled the world extensively in pursue of education and personal goals. Honestly, I may say with great confidence that everything I said I was going to be I have become in life. I would not change my life with anyone in this world! God has giving me many blessings and I am thankful for that!!

MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY DAUGHTERS ,AND THEIR MOTHER

Yes, I believe in God, family, and friends! I was married for 18 years and got divorced because my partner and I grew apart. I have been blessed with two amazing daughters who are the love of my life! My ex-wife and I are good friends who share our daughters' lives. We all talk on a regular basis because we have respect for each other and we strongly believe is very beneficial for our daughters.

I WANT TO MEET YOU NOT MEET SOMEONE LIKE ME

I am not here in this site hoping to find someone like me! That would be boring. I am hoping to meet someone who values the qualities that I have learned to value in life myself. Honesty, love for your neighbor, and having a trustworthy soul.

I can tell you with great confidence that after all these years I have learned how to treat and respect a woman. You just need to be yourself and know what you want in life. If you pretend to be someone who you are not, I will be able to tell eventually that you are pretending to be someone else.

MY CONTRIBUTION TO YOU IN YOUR FUTURE LIFE WITH ME

It is impossible for me to tell you the kind of people are in this website in the male population. I don’t look at males’ profiles.

However, it is very simple for me to tell you that I am someone who is willing to contribute directly in your personal happiness providing an honest, interesting and strong relationship. Something that I am sure you have considered to have in your future relationship as a woman.

YOU , YOUR CHILDREN AND I

I am father of two intelligent beautiful adult women. I know what it takes to raise great children like mine. I would never trait that experience for all the gold in the world.

At this point in my life, I want to enjoy time with my partner alone. This means having time for ourselves as adults.

I am hoping to meet someone who is independent and with grown children not living at home!



Be ready to have some Quality time and send me an email…

God bless you !

PROFESSIONALLY:

Professionally you can read the following about me by referencing my LinkedIn profile: https://cn.linkedin.com/in/fernando-vera-40a8677

Dynamic, multi-disciplined Manufacturing Executive with over 28 years of successful, results-oriented experience in US and international plants in Manufacturing Management, Production, Engineering, Supplier Development, Quality Control and Quality Assurance.

Experience includes diverse Fortune 500 corporations spanning Oil & Gas: Harbison-Fischer / Dover Corporation; Locomotive: General Electric; Automotive: Nissan Motors Manufacturing, General Motors Corporation and most recently Baoji Geely Engine Components in China. Aerospace : Allison Gas Engines and Cessna Aircraft Company/Textron

Known for achieving bottom-line results for productivity, quality, growth, profitability and increased efficiency.
How would you describe your ideal partner?
I am hoping to find a companion who shares similar values in life.

Someone who is interested in exploring a new relationship. She should be real in her search, truthful, and respectful.

I would like to develop a relationship that is based on friendship, confidence, consistency and honesty.

I would also like to meet a woman who is genuine, educated, nurturing and understanding. Someone who is very honest at her most intimate moments is a blessing. Spiritual intimacy, and self-discovery together is the ultimate quest.
What quality do you value most in the people of your gender?
Honesty
What quality do you value most in the opposite sex?
Honesty
What is a recent prominent event in your life, and how has it affected you?
In September 2015 the price of oil went down from about $100 a barrel to $45. As a result of that, my position as Director of Quality and Lean Manufacturing got eliminated back in my company in Fort Worth, Texas.

Three options opened up to consider. One in Paris, France. One in Guadalajara, Mexico and the last the one I took in Nanjing, China.
On September of 2015, I went to China to create business chance for this company that has become a Global venture. The job has been challenging as expected. However, very interesting in nature because I am using all my professional knowledge that I have gather thru time to solve very complex problems. This assignment has successfully finished. I am back in the US.
What is the best advice that you give to your children?
The advise that I always tell to my children is to "listen" what I have to say. I usually them that they don't have to do what I am telling them. Just few minutes to listen what I have to say. I tell them can decide for themselves when they are alone. After all, they will the ones who will bear with the outcome of their final decision.
What has produced the biggest impression (shock) on you?
In recent months 2 people who I met in the past suddently die. I worked with one in Mexico while working for General Motors. That was a motorcycle accident. Obviously, it was never expected to happen. The other one even more chocking to me. This was the husband of one of my good friends back in Texas. The developed a clog on his leg and one morning this caused his sudden death while talking to my best friend in bed. When this happened, he knew he was dying.
Both Tim and Chris extremely good individuals. Great husbands, good parents, and faithful husbands who loved their wives.
Successful people like I know few!! Both around my age. Good looking and in great shape mentally and physically.

The impression that this caused on me is a true reflexion of the time we have in this life. How so sudden this can change and everything you have no longer is there for you to have or enjoy.

No family, no wife, no monies!! Everything you have worked so hard everyday of your life just vanishes in front of your eyes!
Now every time that I could potentially enjoy life, I really think take advantage and just do it without hesitation or doubts.
What are your goals now?
My professional goals are just about on track after many years of hard work and the ups and downs that my life has given me. My personal life still needs my attention. That is why I am here in this website to invest time and hopefully meet a quality woman who can have my attention and my time.
Whom do you admire?
Both my parents ! Both my children ! They are unique individuals. All different ! All amazing !
Do you have a lot of friends?
I just have few that I can count with my hand to call friends !
What qualities do you dislike most in those of your gender?
Envy and dishonesty ! ( those are not qualities by the way..)
What qualities do you dislike most in the people of the opposite sex?
Shallowness and dishonesty ! ( those are not qualities by the way..)
What would you like to change in yourself?
I would like to become someone who can invest more time on my personal life.
What are your weaknesses?
I expect fast results as a result of my work so I can be demanding at times.
What are your strengths ?
Honesty, very perseverant, very discipline. Very creative.
How do friends view you?
As written above about my strengths.
How do acquaintances view you?
The same as my friends.
What are your favourite games?
Soccer is my thing !
Who are your favourite writers and poets?
Alexandre Dumas, also known as Alexandre Dumas, père, was a French writer. His works have been translated into nearly 100 languages, and he is one of the most widely read French authors. The Count of Monte Cristo, The Three Musketeers, Twenty Years After, and The Vicomte de Bragelonne: Ten Years Later.

César Abraham Vallejo Mendoza was a Peruvian poet, writer, playwright, and journalist. Although he published only three books of poetry during his lifetime, he is considered one of the great poetic innovators of the 20th century in any language. The Black Heralds (191 , Trilce (1922), Human Poems (1939), and Spain, Take This Cup from Me (1939)
What kinds of music do you like?
Basically all kind. Heavy rock is the exception !
What is your favourite food?
Peruvian cuisine
Middle Easter cuisine
Chinese cuisine
What are your favourite films?
So many !
What is your favourite activity or hobby?
I enjoy working out. I spend one hour at the gym about 6 days a week. While I was back in the US , I used to go a lot to the movies. . I love to cook and I am very creative in the kitchen.
What is your dream job?
Provide help to the most needed and be compensated as well !
Tell us about your dream partner.
Intelligent, honest and trustworthy of my attention and time!
Where do you want to live?
I am in Texas. I will be relocating out of Texas and I have 3 potential options in the US depending where I can get the best job.
 
Do I enjoy gardening?
It's OK - if it is done for me
Do I enjoy grocery shopping?
I love it
Do I enjoy other types of Shopping?
I like it very much
Do I enjoy cooking?
I love it
How often do I like to go out?
Once a week
Do I enjoy dining out?
I enjoy it
When it comes to TV
Turn it off
When it comes to money
I spend some and I save some
Describe myself at a party as a
Life of the party
Keep my space
It's spic and span
Ideally I would like to live in a
house in the suburbs
Preference for pets
Don't have but like Cats, Dogs, Rodents
What type of television programs do I enjoy watching most?
Sci-fi, Sport, News, Nature/wildlife, Horror, Films, Educational, Drama, Documentary, Current Affairs/Debates, Comedy
I enjoy spending free time
Doing something athletic, Having lunch with a friend, With family, Doing absolutely nothing, Shopping, Visiting a museum or gallery, Pursuing a hobby, Watching TV or a movie, Among friends, Playing on the computer
Activities that I enjoy
Biking, Boating/sailing, Fishing, Hiking, Dancing, Mountain climbing, Weight lifting
Sports that I enjoy watching and/or playing
Auto racing, Figure skating, Football, Olympic sports, Soccer
Forms of entertainment that I enjoy
Bars/pubs, Dinner parties, Fine dining, Movies, Museum/arts, Classical music, Pop music, Surfing the web
Other hobbies or interests
Cars, computers, family/kids, home improvement, investing, news/politics/events, photography, shopping, travelling